Taking things slow while dating
If you feel weak or are craving turkey after 30 days as a vegetarian, then head to Mongolian Barbecue and go nuts. A 30-day trial gives you a chance to try just about anything. You pretty much eat until you’re full and don’t count calories.It seems to self-regulate nicely based on some meals I’ve tried…My kids are my focus and that was truly enough for me. We started talking, reminiscing – we clicked as if we had been the best of friends for the 20 years, even though we had not seen or even talked to each other during this time (other than the occasional Facebook like or comment). Now, we both are matured, have experienced divorce and all it’s tribulations (her more so than me) and professionals in our respective fields. Not sure I know what taking things slow truly means?I also have no interest in dating others, and not because I reconnected with her – it’s just not who I am? I honestly could not wait to respond to this man, because I was jumping for joy while reading this!
But for now, I’ll do it mostly as-written because there’s little point to deciding you’re going to do something and then modifying it so much that you’re doing something different. I’ve been trying out “slow carb” meals (lots of beans, etc.) for a week or so to see how I like it, and it’s cool. You'll never get the full attention you deserve by anybody who's still 'half headed and half hearted'...wow.. Try to kiss her, if she resists or flinches in any way pull back and say something like, "I'm sorry, I couldn't resist".Isnt ALL women coming out of " Bad Relationships " ? You don't need to actually succeed in kissing her, but making the attempt lets her know you don't think of her as just a friend.The willingness to back off is more important than not coming on too strong in the first place, I believe.Two ways to "take things slow" or "take things fast":(a) Physically (kiss, making out, sex, etc)(b) Meshing lives (bringing one another to events w/ their friends, meeting family, family events, weddings, etc)Meshing lives (b) or lack thereof, is REALLY the indicators of things going fast or slow... How "far" you go isn't really an indicator of how fast a relationship is developing (that's a myth).